Sunday, December 28, 2008
WHY DO WOMEN LOVE TO GOSSIP?
the TV is somewhat effective in depicting the many joyous conversations we women love having, take for example:
Gossip Girl
90210
Mean Girls
and this list goes on and on and on.
JEALOUSY?
most of the time, numerous experts exclaim that whoever we gossip about are actually the ones that we are upmost jealous and envious of.
the gossip will therefore lead to negative impacts and thus works in increasing the self-esteem of oneself.
but tell me, do we really want to stoop that low as to having to resort to gossip to boost up our self esteem? do we really need that?
TO LEARN AND LIVE?
With gossip, women feel out other women, other people, tendencies, "political" currents, etc. - they learn about their social surroundings. Who's on my side, who's a potential adversary, is this an environment that is bound to be a defense for my children?
some experts claim that gossip is necessary in life,
in order to understand our environment,
in order to seek out the enemy.
PLAINLY BECAUSE WE'RE BORED?
then you get the argument which says that women who gossip live boring and unhealthy lifestyles and therefore require gossip to lighten up their day and eliminate the boredom in their life.
BUT Desperate Housewives! they live brilliant lives! well atleast its way more exciting than mine, so WHY ARE THEY GOSSIPING?
so therefore i have come to the conclusion that...
we all do it sometime in our life.
we all sink in to it whether we like it or not.
we all enjoy it when it gives us a good laugh.
AND...
MEN DO IT TOO.
Sha and I at the zoo last Monday :D
I love voda, yes i do!
:D
training training training.
THANK YOU YOU YOU FOR READING.
-define 'creature' for me!
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